If you are a regular follower of my blog and/or the news out of the General Convention, you will recall that the Episcopal Church endorsed C056 which called for gathering resources of same-gender marriages and allowing generous pastoral responses for bishops, especially those within states who have same-gender marriage, to deal with parishioners dealing with these issues.
Today, in the House of Bishops/Deputies Listserve, a deputy from Southern Ohio raised a question regarding the terms “same-gender” versus “same-sex” as the two are, at least terminology wise, not the same.
As I’ve been wondering the same, I did a bit of research and responded. Here’s my answer:
What a good question about “same-gender” versus “same-sex” unions as I’ve been wondering why C056 used “same-gender” as well.
Interestingly, the Human Rights Campaign, perhaps the largest advocacy group for the GLBT community, and Lambda Legal, a legal defense organization, both use “same-sex” instead of “same-gender” regarding marriage-equality issues.
Generally speaking, same-gender marriage and same-sex marriage have been used interchangeably; however, same-sex marriage is used much more. Although I was not tracking the Committee dealing with C056, the confusion around the terms appears to be with the original resolution which states:
“Resolution: C055
Title: Same Gender Committed Relationships
Topic: Same-Sex Unions
Committee: 14 – Ministry
House of Initial Action: Bishops
Proposer: Diocese of Missouri
Resolved, the House of _______ concurring, That the 75th General Convention support and uphold persons in same-gender committed relationships of enduring love, mutuality, and fidelity; and be it further
Resolved, that the term “sexual orientation” in Title III, Canon 1, Section 2, shall protect all persons from denial of access to the discernment process for any ministry, lay or ordained, in this Church solely on the basis of being in such a relationship.”
If you remember the debate on the floor of the House of Deputies regarding adding gender identity or expression to the non-discrimination Canon in Title III (see C061), there was a question regarding the difference between these terms. The difference between “sex” and “gender” was confusing to many. The question regarding the terminology seemed to bog down the House of Bishops which, in its confusion, removed the list completely. Instead of simply taking the Bishop’s resolution as amended, it was decided that it was better to keep the list as is, without adding “gender identity or expression” and to have much more education about the terms over the next three years.
The World Health Organization has a quick explanation between “gender” and “sex.” Here’s the link: http://www.who.int/gender/whatisgender/en/index.html
Don’s point, though, is an excellent one. C056 is clearly meant to be about “same-sex” marriage which is probably how it will be interpreted. However, as the Church moves forward, it needs to be more clear on its terms and use “same-sex” instead of “same-gender.”
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