Words DO Matter

July 27th, 2009

If you are a regular follower of my blog and/or the news out of the General Convention, you will recall that the Episcopal Church endorsed C056 which called for gathering resources of same-gender marriages and allowing generous pastoral responses for bishops, especially those within states who have same-gender marriage, to deal with parishioners dealing with these issues.

Today, in the House of Bishops/Deputies Listserve, a deputy from Southern Ohio raised a question regarding the terms “same-gender” versus “same-sex” as the two are, at least terminology wise, not the same.

As I’ve been wondering the same, I did a bit of research and responded. Here’s my answer:

What a good question about “same-gender” versus “same-sex” unions as I’ve been wondering why C056 used “same-gender” as well.

Interestingly, the Human Rights Campaign, perhaps the largest advocacy group for the GLBT community, and Lambda Legal, a legal defense organization, both use “same-sex” instead of “same-gender” regarding marriage-equality issues.

Generally speaking, same-gender marriage and same-sex marriage have been used interchangeably; however, same-sex marriage is used much more. Although I was not tracking the Committee dealing with C056, the confusion around the terms appears to be with the original resolution which states:

“Resolution: C055

Title:  Same Gender Committed Relationships

Topic: Same-Sex Unions

Committee: 14 – Ministry

House of Initial Action:    Bishops

Proposer:     Diocese of Missouri

Resolved, the House of _______ concurring, That the 75th General Convention support and uphold persons in same-gender committed relationships of enduring love, mutuality, and fidelity; and be it further

Resolved, that the term “sexual orientation” in Title III, Canon 1, Section 2, shall protect all persons from denial of access to the discernment process for any ministry, lay or ordained, in this Church solely on the basis of being in such a relationship.”

If you remember the debate on the floor of the House of Deputies regarding adding gender identity or expression to the non-discrimination Canon in Title III (see C061), there was a question regarding the difference between these terms. The difference between “sex” and “gender” was confusing to many. The question regarding the terminology seemed to bog down the House of Bishops which, in its confusion, removed the list completely. Instead of simply taking the Bishop’s resolution as amended, it was decided that it was better to keep the list as is, without adding “gender identity or expression” and to have much more education about the terms over the next three years.

The World Health Organization has a quick explanation between “gender” and “sex.” Here’s the link: http://www.who.int/gender/whatisgender/en/index.html

Don’s point, though, is an excellent one. C056 is clearly meant to be about “same-sex” marriage which is probably how it will be interpreted. However, as the Church moves forward, it needs to be more clear on its terms and use “same-sex” instead of “same-gender.”

Copyright © 2009 The Very Rev. Christopher D. Hofer

A Flurry of Activity

July 20th, 2009

This posting will include information from the last day of General Convention. A subsequent one will give overall feedback about the Convention.

Entering the last day of General Convention there was excitement and some trepidation among the deputies, myself included. Would C056 (which gave bishops wide latitude in pastorally dealing with issues of same-gendered blessings along with calling upon the church to gather resources on same-gendered blessings) pass? Would there be a push-back from the more conservative members of the House? Would the bishops put a monkey wrench in the process? What would happen?

As expected, the day found a flurry of activity. The House passed legislation quicker than the previous nine days. The deputies were tired and folks just wanted to get home. However, it was clear that we would still take our duties seriously.

At the time set in the morning, we took up C056. The final text is:

Resolved, the House of Deputies concurring, That the 76th General Convention acknowledge the changing circumstances in the United States and in other nations, as legislation authorizing or forbidding marriage, civil unions or domestic partnerships for gay and lesbian persons is passed in various civil jurisdictions that call forth a renewed pastoral response from this Church, and for an open process for the consideration of theological and liturgical resources for the blessing of same gender relationships; and be it further

Resolved, That the Standing Commission on Liturgy and Music, in consultation with the House of Bishops, collect and develop theological and liturgical resources, and report to the 77th General Convention; and be it further

Resolved, That the Standing Commission on Liturgy and Music, in consultation with the House of Bishops, devise an open process for the conduct of its work inviting participation from provinces, dioceses, congregations, and individuals who are engaged in such theological work, and inviting theological reflection from throughout the Anglican Communion; and be it further

Resolved, That bishops, particularly those in dioceses within civil jurisdictions where same-gender marriage, civil unions, or domestic partnerships are legal, may provide generous pastoral response to meet the needs of members of this Church; and be it further

Resolved, That this Convention honor the theological diversity of this Church in regard to matters of human sexuality; and be it further

Resolved, That the members of this Church be encouraged to engage in this effort.

After twenty minutes of discussion regarding procedural questions, including one deputy questioning if we could even discuss the resolution as he felt it violated our constitution (the Chancellor said it didn’t), we finally proceeded to the question. Most of the discussion was civil on both sides as it was clear it the resolution was going to pass (the bishops passed the resolution by ¾’s margin). Some of the arguments opposing assumed the Church was leaving its orthodox roots, that we were “jumping buildings” and that we would kill our relationship with the Anglican Communion. However, some moderate speakers got up and shared that being in communion and moving forward is a both/and and not an either/or.

When the time came to vote, done by orders, the Chaplain led us in prayer. The results in the lay order were 78 yes, 23 no and 7 divided. In the clergy order the vote was 74 yes, 27 no and 7 divided. A simple majority — 55 votes among laity and 55 among clergy — was required for the resolution to pass. Divided votes are counted as “no” votes. The motion carried by more than a two-thirds majority in both orders. The House had spoken and the measure passed overwhelmingly.

When C016 came to the floor, the wonderful resolution regarding adding gender identity or expression to the canons, we decided, as expected, not to consent with the bishops as it moved away from the canon a list of protected individuals. Although the House feels strongly that the sentiment is clearly for no discrimination in the discernment process, not to have a list of individuals would actually open the door for discrimination. Thus, we rejected the move.

Of all the events of the day, the most bizarre one came with a discussion of A099, additions of Propers to the liturgical resource of Lesser Feasts and Fasts. Some background: When the Prayer Book, Liturgy and Music Committee worked on these Propers, it wanted to add in one for Mary, Theotokos (the God-bearer). In an effort to be correct on the meaning of theotokos, the Committee left out Blessed Virgin in front of Mary’s name. Well, this caused an uproar first in the House of Bishops which amended the language to include Blessed Virgin in it.

Due to an unfortunate editing process, the legislation made it to the House of Deputies with Blessed Virgin crossed out. This caused many orthodox and conservative members to have a fit. After it was explained that the House of Bishops actually included Blessed Virgin in the text, the orthodox and some conservative members of the house calmed down. However, some weren’t listening. After the resolution passed, a member of the Albany deputation, a priest, took her sandals off, put them above her head, and started to clap them together as a sign of shaking the dust off her feet. She walked slowly out of the house yelling “I’m done with you.”  As the Diocese of Albany was right behind us to our left, I saw all this. Those in front of us did not.

I pray for that priest. I pray that some more conservative members of our church feel alienated. This is tragic. Sadly, it is the same feeling more progressive members of the church felt for years.

My prayer for the Church as a whole is that we’ll be able to continue to move forward in our faith while living in tension. It is Christ who unites us in our differences. If we need to shake the dust off our feet, let us shake the dust off of our own self pride and assurances that we are “right.” Let us instead realize that only God through Christ is right and move forward in mission.

Copyright © 2009 The Very Rev. Christopher D. Hofer

In Memory of Al Gens

July 17th, 2009

Today, faithful parishioner Al Gens is being buried. Following is a letter I wrote to be read at today’s funeral. +May the soul of Al and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.+

Dear Members of the Gens’ Family, Friends of Al and Fellow St. Judeans,

Thank you for giving me the privilege of interrupting this liturgy to share a few thoughts about my friend, Al.

It grieves me that I am not able to be with you in person as I am gathered in Anaheim, California, with thousands of other Episcopalians doing the work of the greater Church. We are endeavoring to ensure that places, like St. Jude’s, continue to be congregations centered upon the Gospel of Christ and the mission from it. It is a mission that Al believed in much.

Five years ago this week, I met Al for the first time. He was home, sitting in his front room on his favorite chair, television blasting, resting from his morning’s radiation treatment. Although he was tired, he welcomed and embraced me with open arms. He shared with me a glimpse of his life, how much he loved his Church, his family and his friends. In the midst of our conversation, he did not once complain about his health or what was happening to him. “He’d lived a good life,” he exclaimed.

Al did live a “good life.” A life committed to service and putting God and others before his own needs. He was dedicated deeply to ensuring that the mission of St. Jude’s would be spread and that these doors would always be open. He is an example of the kind of churchmen all Christians should model.

I will miss Al deeply as I know all of you will. However, in the midst of our grief, let us be certain that the Al we knew is not dead but lives. Allow the loving hands of our loving Savior wipe away your tears. Be there for one another, hold each other and remember, Al not only lived a good life, he lives one today.

Rest assured of my daily prayers and that of the thousands gathered in Anaheim as Al was remembered here in our prayers. Upon my arrival home, please know that I am always here with open arms and open ears as Al was for me.

In deepest sympathy,

Christopher+