Rector’s 2012 Annual Report

January 22nd, 2012

Rector’s Annual Report

The Church of St. Jude (Episcopal)

Wantagh, New York

January 22, 2012

In 1960, the venerable family film studio, Disney, released “Pollyanna,” about the little orphan girl, Pollyanna Whittier, who was sent back from the United States to live with her Aunt Polly after the tragic death of her parents. Pollyanna’s aunt, Polly Harrington essentially owned or controlled everything in the town of Harrington, even the church. For most of the movie, Aunt Polly considered Pollyanna a nuisance to be tolerated (barely) as a “charitable” gesture to her deceased sister, Pollyanna’s mother.

In the movie, Pollyanna provides the viewers with several lessons that all Christians should listen to. The movie’s first lesson comes when Pollyanna finds Reverend Ford, the local pastor, practicing one of his sermons (which were known to be fire-and-brimstone sermons) in a field outside of town. They sit down to talk, and Pollyanna tells Reverend Ford how her father, a missionary preacher, preferred to preach from what he called the “glad texts” of the Bible. Pollyanna’s father had noted over 800 verses in the Bible in which God tells us to rejoice or be glad or be happy, and was of the opinion that if the Lord took the trouble to tell us 800 times that he wants us to rejoice, then he must really mean it. Reverend Ford takes this lesson to heart, and the next Sunday he announces from the pulpit that he has personally researched the matter and has found 826 “glad texts” in the Bible, which by his calculation should provide material for over sixteen years worth of sermons.

Like Reverend Ford, as we finished 2011 and enter 2012, we as individuals and parishioners of St. Jude need to remember that God loves us and wants us to enjoy God’s creation! “This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it!”

Without a doubt, 2011 was a time at St. Jude that God gave us many reasons to rejoice and be glad! As I give this 8th Annual Report to you, the faithful of St. Jude, see how God has blessed us:

  • Our 20-30 something ministry, Saints with Swagger, under the direction of parishioner Brian Barry, has allowed young adults from our parish, from other parishes, and the unchurched to find a safe space to share their struggles, question their faith and find Christian friends.
  • On the first Sunday of Lent, the much needed 6 p.m. service began. This meditative, emergent Holy Eucharist, although very Episcopalian, has provided a third, very distinct worship option for our parishioners and others in the community. It has attracted children, teens, young adults, adults and seniors. It continues to grow as worshippers invite others with them to experience the joy of a very intimate worship experience.
  • As women’s roles in society and the church have rapidly changed over the past couple decades and as the vast majority of women are working outside of the home while managing their family, the need for women to gather together for mutual support, prayer and study has become ever-apparent. This past December, with parishioner Lynne Hansen’s leadership, a Women’s Prayer and Support Group started on Wednesday evenings at 7:00 p.m. prior to the Healing Mass. The women who have been attending are being blessed and will continue to be as this ministry expands.
  • Thanks to Vestry member Heidi Felix’s work, we celebrated our 40th anniversary of our church worship space at a highly successful and fun intergenerational Family Fun Day.
  • Reaching out to those who society has forgotten or natural forces have ravaged has been a hallmark of St. Jude’s ministry. Thanks to our outreach ministry led by Brian Quinn, parishioners continue to volunteer weekly at the Ali Forney Center in St. Andrew’s, Astoria, preparing and bringing food for the homeless teen and young adult Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered and Questioning residents. We continue to provide food to area food pantries, our annual Adopt-a-Family campaign helped three large families this Christmas, parishioners donated 46 units of blood at our 2nd annual Blood Drive, we continue to provide space to The Health and Welfare Council of Long Island to assist in enrolling individuals and families in Child or Family Health Plus or Medicaid, we’ve donated thousands of dollars to the Standing Rock Reservation, Episcopal Relief and Development for its Japan Earthquake response, Interfaith Nutrition Network, and Heifer International and more! We’ve been caring for folks outside of our walls and inside our walls as well.
  • In May, the Episcopal Church released the documentary of St. Jude as part of its Transforming Churches’ video series. This documentary reminded us, and also gave a glimpse to the greater Church, just how much we have been blessed and how much we have to be glad about.

I could go on-and-on-and on about how much we have to be glad about. Whether it be our ministry with seniors under Edna Sinche’s leadership, Christian formation and fellowship with and for our children under the direction of Wendy Morgan, our joyous worship supported by our worship assistants, choir, ushers, greeters, linen ironers, altar guild members and the ever-beautifully arranged flowers by Thora Heeseler and her team, and much more. I could go on; however, there is still another lesson from Pollyanna to learn.

The second lesson is an essential part of Pollyanna’s character, what she refers to as the “glad game”. Pollyanna tells how this game was invented by her father after her parents had requested that one of their supporting churches send a doll for their young daughter. When the missionary supply package had arrived, however, it had contained a set of crutches rather than the requested doll. Pollyanna’s father had stood with her, looking at those crutches, and had told her that they must look for something to be glad about for the arrival of the crutches – and they had decided that they were glad they didn’t need them! After that it became a regular game for them, and even (or perhaps especially) after her father’s death, Pollyanna continues to look for something to be glad about in everything that comes her way.

I don’t know of any scriptural basis for Pollyanna’s “glad game,” but it seems to me that if we look into our hearts, we will find that God would probably prefer for us to find reasons to be happy with the circumstances that we find ourselves in, rather than find fault with what God provides. This principle can be found in such secular sayings as, “Every cloud has a silver lining,” “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade,” and “Always look on the bright side.” This doesn’t mean that we should ignore tragedy or sadness, or that we should stick our heads into the sand like ostriches to ignore problems, but simply that we accept that the Lord will look after us, and that we try to find the positive side of things. As we say every week, “God is good, and all the time God is good.”

2011 has had its challenges. Many dear parishioners have died or have been hospitalized. Some are struggling with illness or spiritual battles. Many in our parish are unemployed or underemployed. Close friends have moved away. In the midst of all of this and so many more adversities and struggles, we, faithfully following the Holy Spirit’s guidance, have taken challenges and made them into opportunities for ministry here and in our neighborhoods.

So, my sisters and brothers, we enter 2012 stronger than ever. Bucking all national trends, for the 8th straight year our average Sunday attendance has increased, our membership has grown, and thanks to your faithful stewardship and the education by Chris Wright and his Stewardship Committee, we ended 2011 in the black and the Vestry has been able to approve a balanced Ministry Plan for 2012.

To meet the growing needs of this community and our surrounding areas, we will be starting a few vital ministries including, under the direction of Traci Colfer, a children’s choir. We are discerning starting an after-school arts program focusing on how the arts, whether it be arts and crafts to the fine arts, can equip children in their formation. We will also begin a Stephen’s Ministry which, locally run by parishioners, provides high-quality, confidential, Christ-centered care and support to people experiencing grief, divorce, cancer, job loss, loneliness, disability, relocation, and other life difficulties. These ministries will need your prayers and your support of time, talent and treasures. If you have an interest in these ministries, please speak with me directly.

We have much to be glad and give thanks about. There is so much going on and so much work to do, that I simply cannot thank you enough for the work you are doing and will be doing to help St. Jude be that place of welcome for all.

As I conclude this report, along with thanking you for your support and commitment, I would like to thank your parish’s leadership. St. Jude has always been blessed with a great group of leaders. If you look in the narthex you will see the Wardens throughout the years. I have had the first-hand privilege of working with wardens Hal Quinton, Jan Commentz and John Stone. Although I never got to work with Ted Gerbracht and Chris Wright as Wardens, their support has been invaluable. This past year, our current Wardens, Ken Norian and Tricia Corabi, have been faithful, level-headed and spiritually centered in their advice and leadership. I can’t thank enough our Treasurer Brian Quinn for his work and also all the members of our Vestry – especially Wendy Morgan who is rotating off the Vestry having served the maximum 6 years.

When I began 2011, little did I expect that in August Kerry and I would finally, after 17 years of being together, be able to be legally married. Many of you witnessed that glorious day – it was a proud and joyous moment for us and I hope for you as well. Thank you!

My sisters and brother, let us live 2012 with Pollyanna eyes and faith. Our Lord and Savior wishes us to be happy and rejoice and be glad. As we work and strive together to be the people of God in this place and in this time, let it always be the case.

Let us be glad!

Amen!

The Very Rev. Christopher D. Hofer

Rector

This Week at St. Jude (December 6, 2011)

December 6th, 2011

Dear Parishioners and Friends of St. Jude:

Happy St. Nicholas Day!

On this day we remember and give thanks for the life and ministry of St. Nicholas. Growing-up, my mother would take the northern European suggestion and have us place shoes outside of our rooms and St. Nicholas would bring small goodies for us. According to the St. Nicholas Center:

“The true story of Santa Claus begins with Nicholas, who was born during the third century in the village of Patara. At the time the area was Greek and is now on the southern coast of Turkey. His wealthy parents, who raised him to be a devout Christian, died in an epidemic while Nicholas was still young. Obeying Jesus’ words to “sell what you own and give the money to the poor,” Nicholas used his whole inheritance to assist the needy, the sick, and the suffering. He dedicated his life to serving God and was made Bishop of Myra while still a young man. Bishop Nicholas became known throughout the land for his generosity to the those in need, his love for children, and his concern for sailors and ships.

Under the Roman Emperor Diocletian, who ruthlessly persecuted Christians, Bishop Nicholas suffered for his faith, was exiled and imprisoned. The prisons were so full of bishops, priests, and deacons, there was no room for the real criminals—murderers, thieves and robbers. After his release, Nicholas attended the Council of Nicaea in AD 325. He died December 6, AD 343 in Myra and was buried in his cathedral church, where a unique relic, called manna, formed in his grave. This liquid substance, said to have healing powers, fostered the growth of devotion to Nicholas. The anniversary of his death became a day of celebration, St. Nicholas Day, December 6th (December 19 on the Julian Calendar).”

I hope you will make today a truly joyous celebration.

What follows are some upcoming activities and announcements for St. Jude:

Stockings for the Ali Forney Center Residents

Don’t forget, our Sunday School is making and filling Christmas Stockings for Ali Forney residents. They will be collecting the items to fill the 15 stockings that will be delivered on Christmas Day by our Ali Forney volunteers. Some suggestions follow:

• Snacks (granola bars, chocolate Santas, gum, etc.)
• 10.00 gift cards for Target
• McDonald’s gift certificate packets
• Decks of cards
• Lifesavers
• Toiletries (tooth brushes, tooth paste, hair spray or gel, etc.)
• Play dough
• Of Course, cash is always Welcome!

The Ali Forney Center at St. Andrew’s (Astoria), provides emergency shelter for 15 homeless LGBT teens and young adults. St. Jude’s provides hot, family-style meals on many Sundays at the Centre. The St. Andrew’s center is co-sponsored by the Episcopal Diocese of Long Island. There is a box for donations in the Kitchen.

Adopt-a-Family

Our annual Adopt-a-Family is this coming Sunday. Your gift donations may be left in Classroom 4 if you are not able to join us on the 11th. Please label the item with the person’s name and your name. For your information, there are two Justins this year so please include the last name initial if you are purchasing a gift for Justin. If you cannot shop, cash donations are welcome. Please give them to Kris Stone or to the Parish Office no later than Sunday, December 4.

Food for Christmas

Every Sunday, St. Jude is collecting non-perishable food items for our local food pantry at St. Frances de Chantal in Wantagh. When you are out shopping, please consider purchasing additional food items (and items such as toilet paper, paper towels, cleaning supplies) and bring them with you to church on Sunday. You may place the items in the food donation basket in the Narthex (the front of the church) or outside of the chapel door to the left of the mailboxes.

Wednesday, December 7

Women’s Prayer and Support Group

From 7:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. (before the Healing Mass) and continuing weekly, a women’s prayer group, Bible Study and Support Network is meeting. Led by women and for women, the hour will provide women of the church and our community with a chance to study the Bible together, to share stories of hope and support one another. The convener of the group is parishioner Lynne Hansen.

Healing Mass

Join us at 8:00 p.m. in the Chapel for our weekly Healing Mass. Come seeking solace and joy, comfort and peace.

Thursday, December 8

Bible Study

Our weekly Bible Study resumes this Thursday at 10:00 a.m. in the Common Room. Join us for coffee and fellowship as we explore Paul’s 2nd Letter to the Corinthians.

Sunday, December 11, The Third Sunday of Advent

Sunday is our Sunday to REJOICE (commonly referred to as Gaudete Sunday so called from the first word of the Introit of the old Latin Mass (Gaudete, i.e. Rejoice). Liturgically, we will be hearing the story of John the Baptist, lighting the third candle (rose) and seeing rose vestments being used as a symbol of our rejoicing.

Service Times

Is Christmas creeping up on you? Thanks to having three Sunday services, attending is easier than ever. Our service times are:

8:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist (Rite 1) – A simple, said mass utilizing old Elizabethan language
10:15 a.m. Holy Eucharist (Rite 2) – Our family Holy Eucharist for individuals of all ages. This service includes music and uses contemporary language.
6:00 p.m. Meditative Mass – Our 6 p.m. service really sets the tone for the week and uses modern language and music and features interactive participation.

Sunday’s Lessons

According to the Rite Lite Commentary:

“On the Third Sunday of Advent we again are focused on John the Baptist. On Sunday we hear more about John’s ministry and his response to questions raised by his message. An important issue for many in the days of the early Church was the relationship between Jesus and John. In response to those who believed that John the Baptist was the Messiah, the early Christians remembered John’s own words: “I am not the Messiah…I am the voice of one crying in the wilderness, ‘Make straight the way of the Lord.’”

The first reading is Isaiah’s poem of the anointed one and his ministry of peace, healing, and redemption. In his first sermon Jesus applied this passage to himself. In this Advent time we anticipate our celebration of the birth of the anointed one who comes to save.

The second reading is the conclusion of Paul’s first letter to the Church in Thessalonica. He wrote this letter to encourage them to persevere in the Way as they waited for the return of Jesus.
Paul assures them that the Lord will return but that their lives now are to reflect the nature of God’s Kingdom rather than to be spent in sitting back and awaiting the End.

The Church’s Eucharist is a foretaste of that coming of Christ which is still ahead. In word and sacrament, song and story, we encounter the Reign of God in our midst and we reveal that future
joy to the world. Like John the Baptist we are sent ahead of the One who is coming and our joy is to see God’s presence in the world increase.

Sunday’s Lessons are:

Isaiah 61:1-4, 8-11
Psalm 126 or Canticle 3 or Canticle 15
1 Thessalonians 5:16-24
John 1:6-8, 19-28

You may find them here: http://www.lectionarypage.net/YearB_RCL/Advent/BAdv3_RCL.html

Advent and Lenten Study: Images of the Virgin Mary from the Middle Ages

For hundreds of years, images of the Mother of Jesus have been among the most popular in Christian Art. Seminarian Fred Miller will lead a course on Mary in sculpture, paintings, tapestry, and icons. We will look at pictures of the Annunciation and the Virgin and Child from the Metropolitan Museum and talk about how they have been used for veneration, prayer, and theology. The course will continue in Lent, focusing on the Pieta. We will also plan a field trip to see some of these beautiful objects in person at the Cloisters, probably the greatest collection of medieval art in the U.S. The second class will be this coming Sunday at 9:00 a.m. (between the 8:00 and 10:15 services). It runs for three weeks. The course will be conducted by our seminarian, Fred Miller.

Adopt-a-Family Coffee Hour

Today’s Coffee Hour will feature our annual Adopt-a-Family activities. Please bring your unwrapped gifts to coffee hour, assist in wrapping, sing some carols and have some fun helping others.

Personal Thanks

This Sunday, to the day, is the 9th anniversary of my ordination to the priesthood. I give God thanks for the gift of being in service to Christ and his Church – especially serving with you in ministry.

Stewardship 2012

Thank you to everyone who have completed 2012 Estimate of Giving (pledge) cards. To date, over 80 family units have made a commitment. If you have yet to do so, please help the Vestry and Treasurer prepare for 2012 by returning your completed card this Sunday.

Upcoming Greening of the Church

The Greening of the Church for Christmas will take place Sunday, December 18. The Flower Committee and the Altar Guild have a great deal to do in order to prepare the church. If everyone stays for coffee and then helps to hang Wreaths, put up Torchierres and bows, change the candle holders, etc., the work can be done in a minimal amount of time and still get everyone home for a 1 PM Kick Off!! You will also have the pleasure of knowing that you helped to beautify the church for Jesus’ birth. There is something for everyone, so even children can help!! Eight O’Clockers are invited to come back at 11:30 or help put bows on wreaths at 9 AM.

Christmas Memorials

Would you like to remember your loved ones at mass on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day? In order help in decorating the church for Christmas, we are once again soliciting memorial/honor/thanksgiving donations for loved ones. Simply complete the form found in the bulletin (or the November/December Newsletter) and place it in the offering this Sunday (with your donation) and your loved ones will be remembered at all of our Christmas services. The deadline is Noon, December 20.

Christmas Service Schedule

Christmas Eve, December 24

5:00 p.m. Family Mass with Children’s Nativity Tableau

10:30 p.m. Pre-service music

11:00 p.m. Festival Mass of Christmas Eve with Candlelighting

12:30 a.m. Christmas Eve reception (please bring wine/cheese/appetizers/desserts to share)

Christmas Day, December 25

10:15 a.m. Festival Mass of Christmas Day (this is the ONLY service on this Sunday).

I look forward to seeing you Sunday.

Yours in Christ,

Christopher+

This Week at St. Jude (October 31, 2011)

October 31st, 2011

Dear Parishioners and Friends of St. Jude,

Happy Vigil of All Saints, a.k.a. All Hallows Eve, a.k.a. Halloween!

According to the History Channel, “Halloween’s origins date back to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (pronounced sow-in). The Celts, who lived 2,000 years ago in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1. This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. Celts believed that on the night before the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. On the night of October 31 they celebrated Samhain, when it was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. In addition to causing trouble and damaging crops, Celts thought that the presence of the otherworldly spirits made it easier for the Druids, or Celtic priests, to make predictions about the future. For a people entirely dependent on the volatile natural world, these prophecies were an important source of comfort and direction during the long, dark winter.

On May 13, 609 A.D., Pope Boniface IV dedicated the Pantheon in Rome in honor of all Christian martyrs, and the Catholic feast of All Martyrs Day was established in the Western church. Pope Gregory III (731–741) later expanded the festival to include all saints as well as all martyrs, and moved the observance from May 13 to November 1. By the 9th century the influence of Christianity had spread into Celtic lands, where it gradually blended with and supplanted the older Celtic rites. In 1000 A.D., the church would make November 2 All Souls’ Day, a day to honor the dead. It is widely believed today that the church was attempting to replace the Celtic festival of the dead with a related, but church-sanctioned holiday. All Souls Day was celebrated similarly to Samhain, with big bonfires, parades, and dressing up in costumes as saints, angels and devils. The All Saints Day celebration was also called All-hallows or All-hallowmas (from Middle English Alholowmesse meaning All Saints’ Day) and the night before it, the traditional night of Samhain in the Celtic religion, began to be called All-hallows Eve and, eventually, Halloween.”

For Christians, we mark this most holy eve as we prepare to celebrate All Saints Day tomorrow and remember the saints of heaven as well as on earth!

What follows are activities coming this week at St. Jude:

All Week (8 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. and evenings)

Do you have items for the Country Fair? Bring them this week during office hours or in the evening and place them in the Classroom Hallway.

Wednesday, November 2 – The Commemoration of all the Faithful Departed

Although we will be remembering our deceased loved ones during masses on Sunday, on Wednesday evening, at 8:00 p.m. in the Chapel, we will be having a memorial mass for all our loved ones who have died (specifically in the past year) and praying for healing for those left behind. Are you grieving the death of a loved one? Perhaps you have a friend who is. Come this Wednesday, invite your friend and pray for healing.

Thursday, November 3 – Bible Study

Do you have a love/hate relationship with St. Paul? Join us Thursday at 10:00 a.m. in the Common Room as we continue to explore Paul’s Second Letter to the Corinthians.

Friday, November 4 (6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.) and Saturday, November 5 (10:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.) – St. Jude’s Country Fair

St. Jude’s Annual Country Fair is fast approaching. Watch your emails this week for important updates. Don’t forget, this is your Fair. Donate items. Sell Raffle Books. Most importantly – COME, INVITE YOUR FRIENDS and SUPPORT OUR PARISH’S VITAL MINISTRIES.

Sunday, November 6, All Saints’ Sunday

Sunday Service Times

We will remember all of our faithful departed at each Eucharist on Sunday (it isn’t too late to have your loved ones’ names read in church on Sunday. Please email Rhonda by Noon, November 1, your names. Her email is sjwantagh@verizon.net). Our service times are:

8:00 a.m. (a simple, said, Rite 1 – old Elizabethan language – Holy Eucharist) in the Church

10:15 a.m. (our Family, Rite 2 – contemporary language – Holy Eucharist with music) in the Church

6:00 p.m. (a meditative Holy Eucharist with music and prayer, and for the fall cycle, prayers from the Celtic tradition) in the Chapel.

Don’t forget – if you miss Sunday morning worship, we always have our 6:00 p.m. service.

Sunday School Learn of the Saints

St. Jude’s Children LOVE to hear of the Saints of God. Sunday School starts at 10:00 a.m. in the Chapel with a special look at the meaning of All Saints.

Sunday’s Lessons

According to the Rite Light Commentary:

Sunday we celebrate the Feast of All Saints. A central feature of that celebration is Holy Baptism, by which we have become members of the communion of the saints. This is one of the four  times during the year when Baptism is most appropriately administered. All of us will join in renewing our baptismal vows.

The term “saint” means “a holy person.” The doctrine of the saints is not that saints are a few exceptional Christians who were holy in themselves: instead, it reminds us that no one can become holy without the indwelling of God’s Holy Spirit. The saints are all those who in baptism received the Spirit of God. Thus, the festival of All Saints is the celebration of all baptized people, for we have all been given the gift of the Spirit.

The readings describe the result in the lives of God’s people of the holiness that comes from the Spirit. The reading from Revelation sees the redeemed in white robes, dressed as the early Christians dressed newly baptized people, and led to the baptismal streams of living water.

John reminds us that God is restoring us to the fullness of God’s image and likeness. The call of Jesus to saintliness is a radical call to live lives directed by love toward others, as the Beatitudes remind us. Our liturgical gatherings are meant to be more than a blessing for us who attend; they equip us to live out our baptismal vocation in lives that proclaim the good news of Christ in concrete actions of love and care for others.

Sundays Lessons Are:

Revelation 7:9-17

Psalm 34:1-10, 22

1 John 3:1-3

Matthew 5:1-12

You may find them here: http://www.lectionarypage.net/YearA_RCL/HolyDays/AAllSaints_RCL.html

Saints with Swagger

20 – 30 Something Ministry

Our 20 – 30 Something Ministry will be meeting after the 6:00 p.m. liturgy in the Common Room. All searching are welcome.

Fall Back

Don’t forget you get an extra hour sleep this Sunday. Turn your clocks back one hour before going to bed on Saturday and wake-up refreshed on Sunday as we give thanks for all the Saints.

Thank You and Snow

Thank you to those who donated the Kindle and iPad2 for the Country Fair. Your generosity is most appreciated.

We are still in need of a snow plow for our sexton to plow the sidewalks. The snow scare of the past weekend reminds us that this winter, like last, might be bad. Can you help? We are looking for something like this: http://www.snowblowersdirect.com/Ariens-921022-Snow-Thrower/p4948.html?utm_source=froogle&utm_medium=shop+portals (cost around $1,000). Thanks for your generosity.

Have a safe and Happy Halloween. I look forward to seeing you at the Fair!

Yours in Christ,

Christopher+